Denmark is one of the easiest countries in the world for international couples to get married, but the application process can be confusing if you’re not familiar with it.
Familieretshuset in Danish, or The Danish Agency of Family Law in English, is the government body that handles all international marriage applications in Denmark.
The response rates stated below are The Danish Agency of Family Law’s (AFL) current response time, specifically in cases where they have requested more information about an application.
If the AFL does not approve an application within 5 business days and instead responds to requests for further information or documentation, then this is where the significant delays will occur.
The Danish Agency of Family Law is the governing body in Denmark that processes all international marriage applications in Denmark.
Current avarage 1st resonse time:
5 Weekdays
Current avarage 2nd resonse time:
6,5 Months
What do these response times mean?
1st Response
The AFL has to respond to your marriage application in, or around, 5 working days. This can be to issue an approval (so you can get married) or to request further information / to ask questions about a document or your circumstances.
2nd Response
If the AFL does not approve your application within 5 working days and they instead request further information, then this is where the possibility for huge delays occurs. Here you will end up in the ‘AFL waiting loop’ where, once you have uploaded what they asked you for, you simply have to wait.
The AFL will always prioritise responding to the initial marriage applications that must be responded to within 5 working days, so they will only respond to those applications where further information has been requested when they have time.
The Danish Agency of Family Law is a small department of under 30 people, which handles over 20,000 marriage applications every year.
They are responsible for ensuring that all unions are legal, preventing proforma marriages, and even ensuring that nobody is being married against their will… All of which is a huge responsibility to undertake.
If your documents are not complete, correctly presented, or properly submitted, the Danish Agency of Family Law (AFL) will delay or reject your application.
They can’t offer advice or guidance to individual couples on how to avoid this either. This is because they are not an advocacy or advisory service; they are a government department following set rules.
Many people think the AFL is designed to help couples to get married in Denmark, but this is not the case. In fact, they actually have bad reviews on Trustpilot, just because people misunderstand what they do.
The Danish Agency of Family Law is responsible for processing marriage applications, but that is all. They’re not designed to assist you in making that application.
Lots of couples getting married in Denmark contact the AFL to ask questions about the application process or because they don’t understand the documents required to get married in Denmark, but the Danish Agency of Family Law can’t help with that.
Our job here at Getting Married in Denmark is to help you to navigate the requirements of the AFL smoothly, easily, and promptly.
With this in mind, we’ve written this easy-to-understand guide to the Danish Agency of Family Law to explain what they do, and also what they do not do.
We’ll provide some practical advice on the AFL too, and where to go for help making an application to get married in Denmark.
Let’s start by explaining what the Danish Agency of Family Law is not.
The Danish Agency of Family Law does not offer a telephone helpline service. If you do call the AFL, you probably won’t be able to speak to someone in the marriages department itself, and even if they really want to help you, they’re not able to provide direction for individual enquiries.
When you call the Danish Agency of Family Law, you get through to the general department that handles adoptions, divorces, and many other things relating to family law as well as marriages.
The department is small and gets hundreds of calls every day, and so the AFL strongly encourages contact by secure email and digital document submission instead.
The Danish Agency of Family Law’s main job is to prevent what is known as a proforma marriage (also sometimes called a sham marriage or a marriage of convenience). Proforma marriages are usually used by people who only want to gain Danish citizenship, or citizenship of another EU or EEA country. In Denmark, proforma marriage is prohibited.
The AFL Law assesses all marriage applications, and makes the final decision to approve or reject an application too. If they have any doubts or suspicions about a couple’s application to get married in Denmark, the AFL might invite the couple to a face-to-face interview before making a decision, which we’ll talk about in more detail later on.
Put simply: The Danish Agency of Family Law IS an application processing office operated by the government, just like a Visa office, or passport office. It is NOT a help service or advocacy organisation.
The work of the Danish Agency of Family Law is performed under the remit of Danish Marriage Law, which requires the AFL to reply to all applicants with their initial answer within 5 working days.
If your application was submitted correctly and there were no problems, this answer could be approval to get married. This is one of the reasons that getting married in Denmark is so popular, because the process can be very fast.
However, getting an answer of “yes” immediately is not guaranteed; that first reply might also be to ask for further information about your application, to query your documents, or for various other reasons.
Also, while the Danish Agency of Family Law has to reply to that initial application in 5 working days, any replies they make after that can take much longer, sometimes as long as 2.5 months.
So, let’s dive into WHY so many couples encounter problems with their application and end up finding this so-called ‘super easy Danish process’ difficult and frustrating.
It might seem simple; you just upload pictures of your documents, fill out the application form and get an approval, right? Unfortunately, it really is not that easy.
The fact is, the Agency of Family Law (AFL for short) has very specific rules and requirements regarding marriage applications, and these must be followed to the letter to ensure a straightforward approval.
So, let’s take a look at the main areas that we know cause issues for couples:
Submitting just one of these things ‘incorrectly’ will cause the AFL to respond either with questions or a request for further documentation / information.
When applications are not submitted correctly (this can be for a multitude of reasons) and questions are asked pertaining to the application submitted, then this results in a delay ranging anywhere from a few weeks, up to 2.5 months.
The response time does vary according to the workload of the AFL, and their priority is always the newly submitted cases.
Simply put, this means they do not give priority to cases where additional documentation is requested. If you continue to upload documents or provide information that is not satisfactory, then more questions will be asked, and further delays will occur, and so on.
Many couples getting married in Denmark run into problems or delays when they handle their own application, because they don’t know how the Danish Agency of Family Law works.
Denmark is by far one of the easiest countries in Europe (and the world) for international or multinational marriages, but it still has rules and procedures in place, and criteria that you must meet.
Making an error on your application can result in the delay or even rejection of your request to get married in Denmark; but most such mistakes can be avoided.
Every week we hear from a huge number of couples who complain that the Danish system is supposed to be easy and yet, during the process of applying themselves, found it to be anything but.
We understand that actually it is not that easy. But that is why we are here. We have helped over 8000 couples get married in Denmark since 2014.
We were here during the creation of the AFL in January 2019, and we’ve worked with them every single day since then. We understand the process, their requirements and we are here to help YOU get the wedding in Denmark you deserve. Quickly, easily and without stress.
We are a dedicated wedding agency, and the AFL benefits from our services just as much as the couples that retain us! This is because they know that we can cut down on errors and problems that couples submitting a wedding application on their own might make, which wastes the AFL’s time.
We have a direct bureau line to call and email the Danish Agency of Family Law’s wedding department and as a result of this, can ensure more complex applications are handled correctly.
If you need advice, have any questions, or assistance with your application, we can help ensure that everything goes to plan.
Maybe you don’t feel you need the full service, maybe just assistance with your documents would be enough – you can take it from there. Which is brilliant – we’d love to help you with that and our Essential Service is designed for exactly that!
If you decide that actually maybe you would like help right up to your wedding day and beyond, then yes, we can help you with that too – our Complete Service is perfect for you!
This is your wedding day. This is what we hold at the forefront of our ethics, working practices, hearts and minds and we want to help you achieve the stress free, smooth wedding day of your dreams. Because that is what you deserve.
Some couples are invited for a face-to-face interview with the Danish Agency of Family Law, which is almost always because the AFL wants to make sure they’re not trying to enter into a proforma marriage.
If you are invited to an interview and don’t attend it, your application to get married in Denmark will be rejected.
Both members of the couple attend an interview at the same time, but they’re interviewed separately. This is to ensure that they both tell their own version of events, and also, to ensure that neither member of the couple is being coerced.
You won’t be told immediately after the interview what the result is, and the outcome will be sent to you by email. This can mean an anxious wait, but the answer will arrive between one and eight days later, so won’t be too long.
If you are called for an interview with the AFL, don’t panic! This doesn’t automatically mean they assume you’re trying to enter into a proforma marriage, just that they have some queries that they feel would be best sorted out face to face.
We can advise you as to what to expect on the day, and make sure you have everything you need in support of your interview too.
Mistakes can happen, and the AFL might make a decision that is unsatisfactory, or outright incorrect.
If you are unhappy with the decision the Danish Agency of Family Law makes about your marriage application, there is a procedure in place to make an appeal against it.
You have to follow a set procedure to complain, and you don’t have long after the event to make an appeal to the AFL.
Depending on the nature of your complaint, the time you have to submit it can be as short as 7 days, or a maximum of 4 weeks from the date the issue you’re complaining about happened. How long the appeal takes depends on the complaint itself.
If you miss the deadline to make a complaint, it won’t be heard; and for this reason alone, it is wise to hire the service of a dedicated Danish wedding agency to ensure that you don’t miss your chance.
You have to make sure you make your complaint to the right place, and this might vary depending on what happened.
The Danish Agency of Family Law falls under the Danish Ministry for Social Affairs and the Interior, and is made up of three individual departments:
The AFL is not just there to deal with international weddings, but takes care of various different things relating to the law, families, and relationships. The overall Agency itself is divided into two parts, one of which is administrative, and the other legal.
There are a total of 10 local branches of the Danish Agency of Family Law; but only one of them can be used for anything to do with international marriage applications, and so this is the only one you need to know about!
If both you and your partner are Danish citizens or citizens of another Nordic country, you don’t need approval from the Danish Agency of Family Law to get married in Denmark.
The same is true if you both have a legally issued temporary residence permit in Denmark or a legally issued time-limited residence permit in Denmark; or any combination of these things between you.
If both of you have one of the above documents, you don’t use the Danish Agency of Family Law to handle your marriage application, but the Borger.dk instead.
Contacting the Danish Agency of Family Law isn’t always easy on your own. An advocacy service or Danish wedding agency will help you to make this process much easier.
You have to use email to communicate with the AFL, and messages back from the AL will be sent to the email address you used on your marriage application. However, to reply in your turn, you need to log into the Danish Agency of Family Law’s secure online platform.
You cannot send physical mail to the AFL; even the documents required to get married in Denmark need to be uploaded digitally.
In theory, you can contact the AFL by other means:
However, calling the Danish Agency of Family Law is unlikely to help you. This is a general enquiries line and they cannot access individual applications or advise on marriage applications.
The Danish Agency of Family Law does not offer a drop-in or advice service, and you cannot submit documents to the AFL in person.
Visiting their office without an appointment won’t help with your application, and you won’t be given any advice. The only reason to attend the Danish Agency of Family Law in person is if you have been called for an interview.
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