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Interviews at the Agency of Family Law

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The Agency of Family Law, or AFL for short, is a Danish government agency responsible for overseeing and managing all aspects of family-based law inside Denmark (such as adoption, divorce, births, marriages etc). 

All marriage applications of couples wanting to get married in Denmark must be submitted to the AFL, and they will assess and process each case individually. If the AFL does not feel they have received enough information about your circumstances (such as your permit, civil status and the like) or about your relationship, they may ask further questions. They may also call you in for an interview if they cannot discard a pro-forma marriage based on the information presented with the application.

Below you will find further information about why the AFL holds interviews, what triggers an interview request, what to expect during the interview process, as well as other useful information, such as location and timings etc. 

Pro-Forma Marriage or ‘Marriage of Convenience’

According to the AFL website

“In Denmark, pro forma marriage is prohibited. This means that the marriage must not be entered into if there is reason to suspect that the purpose of the marriage is to obtain the right of residence in Denmark, an EU country, in Switzerland or in another country covered by the European Economic Area.

Because of the prohibition against pro forma marriage, we will inquire about your personal relationship, e.g. how long you have known each other, where you met each other, whether you have children together, whether you live or have previously lived together etc.

We may contact you during the processing of your application if we have questions or require additional information. We may also invite you to an interview, if we believe there is a need for this.”

In other words, are you entering into a ‘marriage of convenience’ 

“a marriage contracted for the sole purpose of conferring a right of free movement and residence under EU law on free movement of EU citizens to a spouse who would otherwise not have such a right”

When assessing a case, the AFL will also ensure the Danish laws on pro-forma marriage are upheld.

What factors are likely to trigger an interview request?

If one of the partners will be gaining rights by getting married, eg: 

  • A non EU-citizen is to marry an EU citizen, or 
  • A non-EU citizen with a permit that entitles that person to family reunification intends to marry a non-EU citizen,

 

And also potentially:

  • There are some unilateral agreements between Denmark and other countries, such as the USA It seems that the AFL applies the same rules even if one doesn’t gain any EU rights (but instead, may gain US rights)
  • As an approximate rule, the AFL wants to see that you have been in a relationship with each other for at least a year. This can sometimes be less, for example, if you are living together and/or have spent a lot of time together in person during the last year. 

Factors of Concern for the AFL:

  • Little time spent together in person
  • Lack of dated material to substantiate your relationship (for example, you met two years ago, but you only have photos and/or chat from the last few months)
  • Lack of a strong title (for example, visiting EU using the 90 visa-free days, holding a C Visa or a short-term permit)
  • Age gap – this is never a factor perse, but if combined with the length of the relationship (short), 

Extenuating Factors:

  • Living together (unless you only registered very recently as living together)
  • Same nationality
  • To a lesser extent: Same background (same religion, same previous nationality etc.)
  • Earlier link/family link – you knew each other earlier – and you can show this (for example, maybe you were not a couple back then, or you were a couple, you broke up and have rekindled your relationship). 
  • Spend a lot of time together, and you can show this!

If the AFL decides that they would like to speak with you both further, then they will contact us (if we are on your POA) or you directly to inform you of such. 

You then have 2 options:

  1. You can refuse the interview, in which case your application will be declined, your case closed, and you will not be able to get married in Denmark. (This does not prevent you from submitting a new case at a later stage.)
  2. You accept the interview invitation, after which the AFL will send you a date and time they would like you to attend the interview.

The AFL Interview

Where will the interview be held?

At the AFL’s offices in Odense:

Rugårdsvej 55A, 2.sal

5000 Odense C

When can I expect a date for the interview?

The AFL holds many interviews, and as such, the agendas are fully booked for several months ahead. At the time of writing, you can expect to wait around 2.5 months for an interview date, give or take. 

Please note that this timeframe will increase around the summer months and Christmas, too. This is because the AFL does not conduct interviews in July and August, nor in the weeks around Christmas and New Year.

What if I have a permit or visa that expires soon?

If, at the time you submitted your application, you still had a considerable number of days left on your permit or visa, but the AFL is not able to give you a date for an interview within its validity period, then the AFL will give you the time to obtain a new title (but they will expect you to submit a new title asap). Once you have submitted the new title, they will confirm an interview date.

This is different if, when submitting your application, you have only a few days left to travel to Denmark on your visa or permit. Should the AFL consider it necessary to interview you, they will not fast-track you for an interview so you can come during the validity of your current permit / visa, simply because they do not have the capacity to do so. 

They will in fact, close your case, and you are requested to apply again when you have a new title to enter Denmark. This must be valid for a period during which they can give you an appointment to come for an interview.

What format will the interview take?

When the AFL goes through a case, they use the following as a ‘checklist’, so to speak:

  1. Can you legally enter Denmark? This is covered with your travel documents (passports, and, if applicable: permits and visas). If you live in different EU countries, the AFL may also verify whether you have met the so-called 90/180 rule when visiting each other

  2. Are you not already married? This is looked into, generally speaking, only if you were previously married. Then you need to document this through a final divorce decree or certificate or a death certificate of your late partner. If you have not been married previously, indicating this on the DOM is sufficient.

  3. Is your relationship genuine? In a nutshell, the AFL will want to exclude that the marriage would be to aid either one of you in obtaining a residence permit rather than sharing your life as a married couple. 

  4. Whenever a couple decides to get married after having met each other in person for only a short period of time, the AFL assumes that one hasn’t been able to get to know each other enough to decide to get married. That is why they may want to verify whether you want to marry to live as a married couple or rather to help your partner to obtain a residence permit and be able to stay within the European Union (or European Economic Area). 

  5. They understand it can be a combination of both: a relationship and, yes, getting married means you will ultimately want to live together. That would be fine. However, if they believe the purpose of your marriage is primarily to obtain a permit for your partner, they will consider it a so-called ‘pro-forma marriage’, which is not allowed in Denmark.

  6. Moreover, they will want to ensure you both enter into marriage with free and full consent: Do you both want to get married (no one is forcing you), and are you both able and allowed to decide to get married (for example, if one has a tutor or guardian assigned, possibly it is the tutor or guardian who has to give consent as well)?

If invited for an interview, you can expect the questions to focus on point 3.

You will be interviewed one at a time, each by the same two caseworkers: one caseworker will be asking the questions, the other will write the report (which at the end of the interview, you are asked to sign). 

To a large extent, you will be asked the same questions. And although your stories do not have to match 100%, overall and logically, your answers should be similar and give the same information. 

It will take around 1.5 hours per person. In between, you will not have time to talk to each other.

What questions can one expect to be asked during the interview?

You can expect questions like the ones listed below. Some of the questions are possibly already answered in the documents you provided with the application. That does not mean the AFL won’t touch upon those or even ask for further information. Please keep in mind that not all of the questions necessarily apply to your case. It is more for you to get an idea:

  • When did you first meet?
  • How did you get in touch?
  • What app did you use to meet online?
  • What did you filter on when searching for online partners?
  • Is your profile still active?
  • Who got in touch with whom first?
  • When did you first meet in person?
  • Since the match, how did you get in touch and start the conversation?
  • How did you exchange phone numbers?
  • How did/do you communicate – which applications do you use?
  • How often do you communicate, and by which media? 
  • What language do you use to communicate?
  • Do you have shared interests, and if so, which?
  • What is your partner’s religion (if any)?
  • Do you celebrate Christmas?
  • Have you been on holiday together, and if so, when and where to?
  • When did you consider yourself to be a couple?
  • When did you start using words like ‘love’, ‘honey’ and the like?
  • Have you celebrated any birthday celebrations, and if so, whose, what did you do and what presents were given?
  • When did you move in together (if applicable)?
  • Did you officially register at the same address?
  • Who pays the rent and other expenses?
  • Who does the cooking?
  • What are your favourite meals?
  • When did you first speak of marriage?
  • When did you decide to get married?
  • Who took the initiative to get married?
  • Has there been an official proposal?
  • Who proposed, when and where?
  • Have you informed your friends and family about the proposal ?
  • If not, why not?
  • Why do you want to get married?
  • Do you want to have children?
  • How well do you know each other’s family?
  • Have you met each other’s family/family members?
  • How often do you meet certain family members?
  • Do you know what your partner studied?
  • Do you know what your partner did and does for a living?
  • Have you or your partner quit your job in your home country?
  • Do you know what his/her parents do for a living?
  • Do you know who maintains your partner and/or your partner’s parents (if applicable)?
  • Do you know about your partner’s previous partners?
  • Do you know your partner’s civil status (separation, divorce, annulment, dissolution registered partnership, death of previous partner)?
  • What do you do during the weekend?
  • Do you have friends in common?
  • Have you met your partner’s best friends?
  • When did your partner last visit his/her home country?
  • How did you find out about the possibility of getting married in Denmark?
  • Why did you decide to get married in Denmark?
  • Are there any tax exemptions if you were to get married this year?
  • What if one cannot get married in Denmark: Do you have a return ticket?
  • Have you quit your job in your home country?
  • Do you know on what – work, study, volunteering etc. – his/her current permit is based (if any)?
  • Do you know whether your partner has already been in touch with immigration to get an appointment for a permit?
  • Who paid visa fees and the like?
  • Will he/she be able to get a permit also if he/she cannot get married?
  • What are your future plans?
  • Where do you plan to live?
  • Who will be financially responsible (if applicable)?

Other Information

You both must go there in person for the interviews. 

Interviews are not done over Zoom or any other online platform.

Interviews tend to start at 8:30 am and are held Tuesday to Friday, public holidays excluded.

Interpreter

Interviews are held in either Danish or English only. If you do not speak either language, you will need an interpreter. 

We need to inform the AFL whether you need an interpreter. 

We can ask the AFL to arrange an interpreter for you. They will do so via an independent translation agency. The AFL charges a fee of 528 DKK (approx. €71) for 1.5 hours per person, which you are requested to transfer to the Agency of Family Law account. 

Do be aware, however, that sometimes an interview takes longer than an hour and a half and an interpreter hired through the AFL leaves when they have worked an hour and a half! Note that it is only at the end of the interview that you are asked to sign the statement, indicating you agree with the contents.

You can bring your own interpreter to the interview. The interpreter can be a certified translator but also a friend (and thus does not have to be a certified interpreter). 

If you bring a friend to translate for you, you must be 100% sure they can perfectly translate everything. They will also need to sign for what they have said and translated. 

Mobile Phones

The interview will concentrate on questions. Not so much on physical or dated evidence. Still, we suggest you bring whatever you can to show for your relationship. The easiest way to do that is on your phone.

The AFL will never take your phone and go through it. They will – and must – ask your permission, and as such, they will ask you for something specific, like photos from a given period or messages sent in a specific year. You’ll then be the one to look that up and show it to them. 

Also, if there are intimate photos you would rather not show, you can indicate that.

Signed Statement

As mentioned above, two staff members of the AFL will be present during the interview: One asking the questions, the other typing the report.

At the end of the interview, the report is printed out, and you are asked to sign this statement. By signing the statement, you agree with its contents.

Make sure you understand what is written – if you hired an interpreter, they should still be there to make sure. If there is anything in the text you do not agree with, make sure to raise this. 

Wedding Date

Whereas until recently, the AFL would issue a decision (ie. approval to get married or rejection) on either the same day as the interview or the day after, this is unfortunately now taking longer. 

This means that you may need to stay in Denmark for close to a week if you wish to marry after having received your approval. If you would prefer not to or are unable to do this, then you will need to travel to Denmark twice – once for the AFL interview, and once for your wedding.

Can I Get a ‘No’?

Yes, if the AFL believes that the desired marriage is primarily intended to ensure that one obtains the right to remain in the EU. 

Basically, they reach that conclusion when, during the interview, the couple gives “divergent statements regarding significant and personal information”. 

In such a case, the AFL concludes that one lacks the information which one would be expected to know after x amount of time in the relationship and  “the couple is therefore not considered to have acquired such usual acquaintance with each other as is generally expected prior to the conclusion of a marriage.” 

Examples that may be cited as reasons for receiving a rejection after the interview:

  • Limited personal knowledge.
  • Very short physical/personal acquaintance, i.e., decided to marry after having met only after spending a few days together in person. For example, a couple met online, and spoke of marriage shortly after without having met in person / or having only met for a few days 
  • Limited ability to communicate with each other due to speaking different languages (and thus using Google Translate etc., to communicate with each other).
  • Age difference – the age difference between the couple is not decisive in itself, but only forms part of a concrete and individual assessment of whether it is a pro forma marriage.

Refund Policy:

If you are called in for an interview and you decide to cancel the procedure, any refunds will be issued in accordance with our cancellation policy. Please refer to the Terms of Service on our website.

As per our refund policy, once an application is submitted to the AFL, we do not offer any refunds, regardless of the outcome of an interview. 

We give you all this information so you can make an informed decision about whether or not you’d like to proceed.

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